What are the ways we betray Jesus like Judas?
- theagapeproject360
- 6 days ago
- 3 min read

We like to believe we never would.
We read about Judas and think, “I would never do that.”
But I can’t help thinking about Jesus at the Last Supper—
when He said that one of them would betray Him.
The disciples didn’t point fingers.
They didn’t assume it was someone else.
They asked: “Surely you don’t mean me, Lord?” — Matthew 26:22
Maybe instead of saying, “I would never,” we should be asking:
“Lord… is there anything in me drifting from You?”
Is there anything I’m choosing over You?
Anything I’m holding onto that You’ve asked me to surrender?
Anything I’ve justified that is slowly hardening my heart?
Because betrayal didn’t begin with a kiss—
it began in the heart.
Judas followed Jesus…
but his heart was in the wrong place.
And that’s what makes it convicting— you can walk with Jesus, be around Him, even look like a disciple… and still have a heart that is far from Him.
There are a couple of ways that we betray Jesus like Judas.
To name a few:
We betray Him when we follow outwardly… but inwardly love something else more than Him.
“These people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me.” — Matthew 15:8
God is after your heart— and He sees when it’s divided.
We betray Him when we love what He died to free us from.
Money. Attention. Approval. Pleasure. Control.
“For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil…” — 1 Timothy 6:10
Judas betrayed Jesus for silver. We betray Him for far less— a moment of sin, a little comfort, the approval of people.
We betray Him when we call Him Lord… but choose sin when obedience costs us something.
“Why do you call me ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not do what I say?” — Luke 6:46
We betray Him when our public faith… doesn’t match our private life.
Worship on Sunday. Compromise in secret any other day.
“No one can serve two masters…” — Matthew 6:24
We betray Him when we refuse to surrender what He’s clearly asking us to let go of.
A relationship. An identity. A lifestyle. Our control.
“Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves…” — Luke 9:23
We betray Him when we choose sin while knowing the truth— not because we don’t know better, but because we want something else more in that very moment.
We betray Him when we use Him instead of loving Him.
We pray when we need something— but resist Him when He asks something of us.
“If you love me, keep my commandments.” — John 14:15
We betray Him when we stay silent about Him out of fear.
Fear of rejection. Fear of losing people. Fear of being different.
“Whoever denies me before others, I will also deny…” — Matthew 10:33
There are so many ways we betray Jesus like Judas, but these are just to name a few……
Judas Iscariot betrayed Jesus for 30 pieces of silver.
But here’s what we don’t always talk about:
Judas didn’t run to Jesus afterward. He ran to the temple.
He ran to a physical place….
And many still do this today.
They run to a building.
They sit in the building.
sing the songs.
But they don’t surrender.
Some worship the building.
Some worship the atmosphere.
Some place their trust in people or feelings.
But none of those can change your heart.
Being in a place does not mean you are surrendered.
A pastor cannot carry your relationship with God for you.
A church cannot make you right with Him.
Judas stood in a temple… surrounded by religious leaders— and they could not restore him.
The word church means a gathering— a gathering of believers.
It was never meant to be something we idolize or a place we go just to appear “right.”
Church is where we learn and grow— but it is not the One we follow.
If you need direction, don’t stop at a place. Seek the Word—because the Word is Jesus.
“In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.” — John 1:1
Judas stood in a sacred place…
yet remained far from God.
Judas felt regret… and ran away from Jesus.
Peter denied Jesus three times—
yet ran back to Him.

“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive…” — 1 John 1:9
So when you stumble—
Run to Him.
And He promises this:
“Whoever comes to me I will never drive away.” — John 6:37
Do not worship a temple…worship Him.
Because it’s not about where you stand—
it’s about who you run to.
He is telling you today…
“Come as you are.” — Matthew 11:28
Repent. Turn from your ways and come to Him—
His mercy is ready, and His pardon is free.
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It takes courage to deal with sin, whether our own sin or calling it out in others. The Church lacks that courage. Its leaders lack that courage. We, the people who follow Jesus, lack that courage. The question is, are we like Peter or like Judas? A very thoughtful and courageous piece of writing.